The venue is booked. Here are the two minutes worth having next.
Your celebrant sent you this link. It is a free nine-question quiz about how the two of you each receive love, handle conflict and say the hard things — the conversations that do not fit into a venue tour or a seating plan, and that matter considerably more than either.
Take it separately, on your own phones. Do not compare answers before you have both finished. That is the whole method, and it is why it works.
Nine questions · two minutes · no account, no email, no card · you can close the tab afterwards and nothing follows you
Why your celebrant hands this out before the wedding, not after
Because the first year is where the talking gets harder, and because a couple who has already learned one vocabulary for their differences arrives in it prepared. After the ceremony you are tired, the house is half moved and the calendar belongs to other people again. Before it, you are still scheduling things together by choice — which is the easiest the year will ever make it to sit down and do this properly.
Your celebrant has married a lot of couples and has watched which ones sail and which ones struggle. It is almost never the wedding. It is whether the two of you can describe what you each need without the other hearing a criticism. That is a learnable thing, and this is the small, cheap way to start learning it.
How it works
You each answer nine questions
Two minutes, on your own phone. No names, no account, no email address. Nothing you answer is stored against your identity, and nothing here is a test you can fail.
You see your own colour profile
Not a label — a description of how you naturally give information, handle conflict and want to be appreciated when things are hard. Then you do it again for your partner, and they do it for you.
You compare, and something clicks
The interesting part is never your own result. It is seeing that the argument you keep having has a shape, that it comes from two different defaults, and that neither of you is wrong.
Why your celebrant sent this
Plainly, because it is fairer than not saying it: Colour Your Love pays registered celebrants a share of whatever a couple chooses to buy after being introduced to us. That is the entire arrangement. It is not a referral fee for your data, we do not receive anything from you to be introduced, and your celebrant is not paid for you to buy anything in particular — only for introducing the free quiz to couples they actually work with.
- Your celebrant keeps a card of these links and hands them out after the ceremony, when the paperwork is done and the reality of being married has arrived.
- Nothing is paid for the quiz. It is free, and it stays free, and there is no card detail behind it.
- If you choose to buy a guide or book coaching later, Colour Your Love pays your celebrant a share — which is how this reaches couples who would never have searched for it.
Are you a celebrant, and reading this because a couple forwarded it? The partner programme is here — it is verified against the public register of marriage celebrants, and nothing happens until you claim your own link.
If it lands, and you want to go further
The quiz is the whole free offering and it stands alone. These are the paid next steps, priced the same as the checkout says — and where a session is not bookable online yet, the card says so rather than quoting a price. None of them is required to get value out of the first two minutes.
First Year Foundations
One 90-minute session with a certified coach, for the two of you together. Both profiles reviewed before you arrive, one real argument decoded on the call, and a written summary you both keep.
Booking opens soon — ask us and we will arrange it by hand
If you would rather go firstSolo coaching
Sixty minutes on your own profile. Useful when your partner is not yet convinced, and surprisingly often the thing that convinces them.
Booking opens soon — ask us and we will arrange it by hand
Or keep it free and read the colour guides — orange · green · red · yellow · blue · purple
Questions Australian and NZ couples ask
- Is this a recognised marriage preparation course in Australia?
- No, and we say so on purpose. This is a free communication quiz, not an accredited pre-marriage course. Some celebrants, churches and counselling bodies require an accredited course before the ceremony — do that one as well if yours does. This is the conversation layer around it, not a substitute.
- How much does the pre-wedding quiz cost?
- The quiz is free and needs no account, no email address and no card. If you later choose a colour guide or coaching, the price shown at checkout is the price — guides are A$19, and any session that is not yet bookable says so instead of quoting a number.
- Do we have to do it together, at the same time?
- No. Nine questions each, separately, on your own phones — that is the method. Comparing answers before you have both finished turns a description of how you each work into a scoreboard, and the point is the opposite.
- We are getting married in NSW. Does that change anything?
- Not for this quiz. Wedding paperwork does differ by state and territory, and one rule applies everywhere in Australia: your Notice of Intended Marriage must be given to your celebrant at least one month before the ceremony. Check the rest with your celebrant — they do it every week and we do not give legal advice.
- Does our celebrant see our answers?
- No. Your celebrant sees that a couple they introduced clicked and, if you buy something, that a purchase was credited to their link. They never see your answers, your profile or your name. The link is the only thing that carries their name.
- Can we still do this if we are already married, or eloping?
- Yes. The framing is written for engaged couples because that is the window where people will sit down and do it, but the quiz is about how two people communicate — it does not check a marriage certificate. Elopements and destination weddings in Byron Bay, the Hunter Valley or anywhere else are the same two minutes.
What this is not
It is not therapy, not couple counselling, and not a diagnosis of anything. It is a communication model that gives two people a shared word for a difference they already live with. If your relationship is in real trouble — if anyone is afraid of anyone — please contact a counsellor or a support service rather than a quiz. There are details on our safety page.Two minutes. Do it before the wedding does.
Your celebrant thought it was worth a card in your hand. Take it now, while scheduling something together is still the fun part.
No account · nothing to buy to see your result · questions to hello@coloryourlove.com any time